When two people are in a relationship, it means that, they both, have decided to make each other a priority in their lives. So, when one party seems to be the one doing all the compromising, texting, calling and giving all the attention, there is something wrong somewhere. How do we know when it is time to say goodbye?
WHEN YOU FEEL IT IN YOU GUTS. That feeling you have when something ain't right, yeah, that's your gut or instinct. Go with it; matter of fact, run as fast as your legs can carry you and find a much quieter place to place your head and your heart.
TOO BUSY TO CALL/ or CALL. Now, they never have time to hung, converse, talk, cuddle, communicate or do anything for that matter. Before, they had all the time in the world. You could talk for hours on end. Now, all you get are excuses of being busy to the extend that they can't even pick up their phone to reply to your text or call. You'd be better off without the excuses.
THEY CONTINUOUSLY DISREGARD YOU. When the end is near, the signs start to show. Their blatant disregard for you is a sure sign that you have to move on with your life.
THEY ONLY CALL YOU TO ASK FOR A FAVOUR. You are a stand by personnel, they do not pay you for the services. Move on
YOU NO LONGER FEEL THE SAME WHEN THEIR THOUGHTS COME TO MIND. This is the last straw. The feeling of untold butterflies no longer exists when you think about them, and you feel that you are only tolerating them. Do not put your wonderful self through that.
That being said, being in a balanced relationship is the best feeling you could ever be in. That feeling of oneness and peace and love is so priceless.
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